Monthly Archives: April, 2020

Cultivate your inner gardener

An open book sitting on a bright red modern chair.I think it’s possible that each of us have had some kind of awakening or epiphany recently. Whether it’s discovering time for a new hobby, rediscovering what it’s like to spend real time with our family, or even reconnecting, in new ways, with people whom we’ve lost touch. This time of uncertainty in the world has wrought many challenges and at the same time brought many renewals, and revivals. Disclaimer: I would never want something like this to happen in the world and I am completely in awe each day by the stories of people who are demonstrating a level of bravery and sacrifice that is just plain remarkable. I continue to pray for all of us during this time for protection,  healing and provision.

What I have seen in my own life and in the lives of many of my friends, and family is a desire to know God better. A desire that cannot be quenched by binge watching Netflix, or reading the entirety of Oprah’s book list, or having a weekly Zoom meeting with everyone I know that doesn’t live in my house. Nothing can fill the space in my life that has been created for God alone. Yes, I said a space in our lives that was CREATED for God alone. For those of you asking, yes, it is a space in every person, everywhere regardless of their beliefs. We are all children of God, created in His image for His glory, so that space is in all of us.

In the words of C.S. Lewis, “If I find in myself desires which nothing in this world can satisfy, the only logical explanation is that I was made for another world.” (Mere Christianity) We simply cannot fill the space created for God with anything other than God. What I am hearing a lot of, is people running out of things to try, and looking for what will work. People are hungry for that which can only be satisfied by Jesus.

Talking with my Pastor this week, we were discussing how there are more people watching Sunday service than normally attended pre-quarantine. With so many people in the world  looking for something to fill that space, our Sunday attendance has continued to grow. It’s a wonderful thing technology, how it can help connect people to each other and even to get out the message of our Lord. People are coming to know who Jesus is and why He came and what He did for each of us! It is a glorious thing!

Herein lies the challenge, and it’s one Paul faced with the church in Corinth. ” Brothers and sisters, I could not address you as people who live by the Spirit but as people who are still worldly – mere infants in Christ. I gave you milk, not solid food, for you were not yet ready for it. Indeed, you are still not ready. You are sill worldly. For since there is jealousy and quarreling among you, are you not worldly? Are you not acting like mere humans?” (1 Corinthians 3:1-3 NIV)

Paul preached Jesus and Him crucified to the Corinthians, they came to believe and formed a church. Paul shared with them all he knew about Jesus and the life of a Christian. However, when we are spiritually young we can not come to understand the deep things of Christ that He wants us to know so we can be more like Him.

OK, Betsy, what are you trying to tell us? I am trying to say that spiritual growth is a participatory sport, not a spectator sport. Yes, ultimately it is the work of the Holy Spirit in us that causes growth. However, we can not sit back in our lazy-boy and expect God to move us.

I love listening to sermons and messages from amazing Godly preachers. This week while I was listening to Priscilla Shirer, I was so engaged and inspired and I found myself wishing I possessed the knowledge of scripture that she had, her ability to know and understand and share the truth of God is anointed! Wow, I caught myself, I was (unconsciously) counting on her to pour scriptural knowledge into my head, instead of seeking it out for myself.

Let me be clear, God created and called people to be teachers and preachers. However, that does not relieve us of the responsibility to lean into God for ourselves. That was part of what Paul was facing with the Church in Corinth. They were arguing over who had the better teacher, were they followers of Paul or Apollos or Cephas? Our teachers are doing what they are called to do and they will be held to account according to that calling. Each of us, also will be held to account for what we have done with what God has given us. We won’t get to point to someone else and say, “they never told me that!”. No, we have been given a precious gift, a gift that the people of the first century Church didn’t have, we have the inspired word of God! We have NO excuse to stay in a place of spiritual immaturity.

When you think, and this goes for me as well, of the amount of time we spend trying to fill the space created for God with things created by God, we could probably have read the bible 5-times over by now.

There will always be things to do, people to see, and work to be done. Our lives are very full, (even though we can’t leave our homes or go to school or to church or the movies…you get the picture), the space is calling to us and nothing, I repeat NOTHING, will fill it except Jesus.

I love that we are finding ways to continue to share Jesus with the world. We need to also find ways to help people connect with Him in a real way outside of that initial experience. We need to find ways to grow spiritually with Christ, so that the birds of the air can’t come and snatch away the precious gift that has been planted in the lives of new believers.

“Listen then to what the parable of the sower means: When anyone hears the message about the kingdom and does not understand it, the evil one comes and snatches away what was sown in their heart. This is the seed sown along the path. The seed falling on rocky ground refers to someone who hears the word and at once receives it with joy.  But since they have no root, they last only a short time. When trouble or persecution comes because of the word, they quickly fall away. The seed falling among the thorns refers to someone who hears the word, but the worries of this life and the deceitfulness of wealth choke the word, making it unfruitful. But the seed falling on good soil refers to someone who hears the word and understands it. This is the one who produces a crop, yielding a hundred, sixty or thirty times what was sown.” (Matthew 13:18-23)

We need to cultivate the ground. Where possible we need to help others do the same, lead by example, show the way, lend a hand, cultivate your inner gardener. Get out of your chair and participate, you will not be disappointed.

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Say and Do, Hear and Obey

Marcus in heelsThis is such a nutty time. I know I could make that statement a 1,000 different ways, and we’ve all heard all of them. The picture I’ve included here is of my children passing the time by seeing who could walk best in my heels. This one in red is my 10 year old son. My daughters are making rose crowns to place on the dogs and I’m trying to balance the seemingly innumerous demands on my time. A co-worker of mine recently made the statement that we were not designed for the kind of responsibility we are now taking on…work, home school teacher, health aid, and counselor. As a parent, not sure if I agree?

Even with all the additional responsibility, the pace of life seems much slower, I get to be (noticed I didn’t say ‘have’ to be) with my family 24/7, and I’m loving it. One of the biggest pay-offs, outside of family time being all the time, is my time with Jesus. I am reading the bible more than I ever have before. I’m praying more and talking with Jesus more, it’s been eye opening.IMG_20200405_180221

My spiritual life is filled with questions, not the ‘where are You in the midst of all of this’, but more like how could the Jewish masses wave palms and praise Your coming one day and less than a week later, bay for Your destruction? Why did God allow so much disobedience in the Old Testament go seemingly unpunished? Why do we hold Gideon up as an example to follow, when actually his actions showed a lack of faith?

I’m working my way though the book of Jeremiah right now and finding that the story of God is a story of childhood disobedience. Not unlike my children. We give them boundaries and rules to obey, and they are constantly pushing those boundaries, trying to sneak under them, negotiation new ones, or just blatantly disobeying them…just because they feel like it. Yet, we as parents, each time correct, instruction, and redirect. “All Scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness, that the man of God may be complete, thoroughly equipped for every good work.” (2 Timothy 16). Sounds familiar doesn’t it? As parents, this is our job to establish rules and guidelines and then to ‘parent’ our children through them.

In Jeremiah, God sent His word through the prophet to His people, “Cursed is the man who does not obey the words of this covenant “which I commanded your fathers in the day I brought them out of the land of Egypt, from the iron furnace, saying, Obey My voice, and do according to all that I command you; so shall you be My people, and I will be your God” (Jeremiah 11:4) God speaks and always does what He say’s He’ll do. His word is never shaken, broken or brought into question. Our job is to hear and obey.

We are God’s children, created in His image to bring Him glory and to be heirs along with Jesus. He created us. He isn’t trying to torture us, or make our lives hard, or embarrass us in front of our friends or force us to do unthinkable chores (like folding laundry). No He created us to be in relationship with Him. He wants to give us the very best, that means we need to operate within the laws and guidelines He has created. God is practical, He isn’t asking us to do anything unreasonable or harmful. In fact, what He is asking is in complete contrast to the unreasonable, unethical, immoral and self-centered way the world wants us to live…and it looks like fun. The world wants us to think that God’s rules are outrageous and unfair and serve only to make us unhappy, and we buy it hook line and 24K gold sinker.

We stop hearing Him, we stop believing in His promises and we listen to the creation, instead of the creator. Why didn’t God act sooner to punish the unruly and disobedient Jewish people, because they are His unruly and disobedient children. And just like we would never turn our back on our own children, regardless of their disobedience, He will never turn His back on His children. He will let them take their sin to a point, then, using extreme measures to get their attention, He will bring them back to Himself.

For my kids it’s video games or texting their friends or watching movies. For the Jewish nation it was a conquering nation that carried them off into slavery; more extreme circumstances, same principle.

I may get frustrated and occasionally angry at my children’s actions and choices, but like my Father, I will correct, instruct and redirect. I will allow them to experience the consequences of their actions, missing out on free time, extra chores, not passing a class, or not getting virtual time with friends, but I will never leave or forsake them. I am their parent and I love them… to infinity and beyond. When they turn and return, they will find me running to them with open arms.

“That I may establish the oath which I have sworn to your fathers, to give them a land flowing with milk and honey, as it is this day” (Jeremiah 11:5)

God always keeps His covenants. He has spoken and will do what He says, we need to hear His words and obey them, that it may go well with us.

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